Building Strength, Courage, Patience and Love

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The goal of Inspired Stepmoms is to support each other in building strength, courage, patience and love without our own hearts. As we master that in ourselves we are better able to share those attributes in our families and with our spouse. These four components seem critical for step mom success.

Strength -- It takes a lot of energy to be a step mom. Staying strong emotionally, mentally and physically will make the days feel easier and your burdens feel lighter.

Courage -- It takes a lot of courage to believe that your little family will make it against sometimes discouraging odds. Bringing a new parent into a family or two families together is not easy. Having faith and hope that you will succeed brings more happiness and gratitude to life.

Patience -- Fitting into an already established father and child relationship can be tricky. As can adjusting to previously established habits and living styles. Patience helps you to get through the frustrating stuff and focus on the love and traditions you are enjoying building in this new family.

Love -- When you choose to act in love, you are able to more clearly define your purpose and course of action outside of emotional distractions. Love will also bring a spirit of healing to the home and encourage the establishment of a warm and caring environment.

How have these components brought success to your family? Is there one you are particularly focusing on right now? Please share in the comments below.